PARENTS : THE BORN KILLERS

The worst thing that could happen to a child is that his parents don’t have faith in him.yes it happens at times  But it took me time to realize it till , when it happened to a friend, who thought that ending the life was all she could do. By saying that “he is nothing but a failure “, you have already killed him. This method of teaching might have worked on you, but is it necessary that it would work on every child as well??? The constant need to do what your parents did to you is nothing but a way to transfer your child hood issues onto them. You need to realize that they are children, your children and should be treated likewise. The feeling of losing support when you wanted it the most, at a time you needed it most, can be the most fatal mistake that you ever make. everything a child dreams of, from his parents, when that comes crashing down, they want to live can often shatter .you should try and realize that everyone in this world is not a genius and for that matter neither are you, then how can you fail to accept that the child has the same blood as you, the same DNA as you .to think that he can be something, you could never be makes you an abuser of the child just like a pedophile. I mean is that what children are for, just to fulfill your wishes, wishes that you couldn’t fulfill by yourself. If that’s the scenario then you don’t need a child, you need a paid laborer, who can do your daily chores and the same time manages to recapture your goodwill in the society. It’s good enough that children are your means to flaunt pride, but to make them your trophies to achieve a fake sense of status in the society, just brings shame to the relationship of a parent and a child. The sacred bond of a parent and child, dented by the sole fact that he couldn’t give a sense of glory is nothing but an effort to make them do something that you couldn’t. Do well …..the words that started everything seem to lose their meaning , the words which initially meant hope you do well , somewhere in between change into you have to do well, for our sake .Although they seem to be your friend , the truth is that , they can never be . The fact that they have been through the same situation doesn’t make s them ease out a bit; rather it makes them do the same thing to their children. I must say that I read somewhere that parenting was hard, but what they forgot to mention was, it was because of children that they became parent, yes a parent which is not a title, nor a position rather a bond which is so easily that it sometimes leads a child to take harsh measures, which often makes parent regret their decisions.

I must say that when these things happen to someone close to you, it makes you realize in what agony that person must have been living in. But that’s it no more shall this continue, my friends , my readers if you are facing the same problems , I advise you not to take harsh steps rather talk to somebody and if you have none then mail me , I’ll be there for you ………

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Ten reasons why British rule "ROCKED"

1.       No petrol problems ……..we didn’t have enough cars…..all we needed was some cattle fodder and we were all set for the day….no one cared If there was a price hike

2.   No TV…….even if there was a petrol price rise , people couldn’t come to know

3.    No schools ……people were not educated enough …..You could do whatever you want …..No one would care, if no one knew about it…..but I don’t think that we are educated now ……ehhhh who cares……. RIGHT???

4.    No law and order problem……people were actually scared of police …..therefore thought ten times before going against them….not like these days , when it’s the other way round

5.       No money, no problem ……..money was not a problem…the British took ‘em all …thus all our problems too….but I guess our ministers are doing their jobs these days.

6.    No racial discrimination …….no matter where we came from, we were all treated as “BLOODY INDIANS “(remember the old movies)……therefore no chance of discrimination …..No north eastern …..No south Indian …..no north Indian ……just plain old “BLOODY INDIANS “

7.     No match fixings ……there was no IPL …..No ODI …..Just plain old simple Cricket …..Also the fact that they had robbed us of everything, might have moved them, from the match fixing ….it is also possible that they had not met cricketers from Pakistan …..

8.     No listening to anyone ……it was a typical monarchy style rule ….no one was allowed to say anything …..come to think of it ….Mamta Banerjee seems to be inspired by them

9.     No tension of food price rise ......whatever the price was people couldn't afford it.…they couldn't afford then ....they can't now 

10    No scarcity of electricity ……we did not know what electricity was hence we did not want it…therefore there was no scarcity of electricity ……just like in most of India , today

But the point is , that   do you really need 10 reasons to realize that nothing has changed since the last 65 yrs in India ……it is a matter of immense shame that we are still in the same position and fighting the same things that we were fighting 60 yrs ago……I guess British rule did ROCK India in way that it is still trying to come to its senses.

This article was not written to demoralize anyone rather to raise questions and try to bring about a change that has yet to come.

No to meter …..Yet somehow the first ones to say no to corruption

Probably the makers of dictionary and the word “hypocrisy” had been to India, when they first thought to coin the term “hypocrite”. the meaning of the term can be at best understood In the case of India and especially in the case of the auto rickshaws (wallahs), which were initial started keeping in mind that these would improve the condition of public transportation, but all they have managed to do is form an union and support anything that is not in their favor or anything that is against the government. Perhaps it’s this ruffian characteristic of the city auto wallahs that any political situation that arises in the city, manages to get their   support so fast (in some cases even before the members of the political group who started the whole thing). But what is surprising to see here is that these auto wallahs have absolutely no problem in torching the buses, creating a chaos situation, damaging public and private property …..Yet would never stop rather have any problems in charging extra (well actually everything is extra what they charge especially because they never seem to travel by meter). they supported Anna Hazare’s movement in Delhi with full enthusiasm , making sure that it was a good show but they contradict their own morals and beliefs when a passenger is sitting in their vehicle , they themselves charge more than the actual fare , that my dear friends is also a type of corruption . Yes corruption the same thing which you fought over in the Anna Hazare against corruption movement. the 31^st of may 2012 was another perfect example of the double standards they set for themselves and us , the so called common man , fighting against petrol price hike , they gave full support to BJP called “Bharat bandh”    ( that too in a case where they run on CNG in Delhi and on diesel in the rest of the country , whose price is yet to increase though but hasn't happened so far ) which can be justified up to an extent but how in the world do you justify the chaos they caused on the streets of the entire country . From charging double the fare to in some cases demanding it as much as four times high, creating a havoc on streets to getting in fight with those who did not believe in the “bandh”, it was a day when they could get away with anything because they knew that they had the support of the one thing that could save them “a political party”. Though it should be duly noted that it was a protest for raising the voice of the common man , one who has struggled the most , but wasn't this style of protest just adding fuel to the fire , adding to his miseries , for in no way can the destruction of public and private property be in the interest of the people.